Government of Indonesia and civil society organization have been doing many efforts to eliminate violence against women. However, violence against women is persistent. One of NGO that sustain effort to help women survivor of violence is Rifka Annisa, the first women’s crisis center in Indonesia. Working about 25 years in providing services and advocacy for violence against women cases, Rifka Annisa is welcomed everyone who want to learn and discuss about gender equality and violence against women problems in Indonesia. I was given the opportunity to talk with a counsellor of Rifka Annisa regarding this issue. This is my report on interviewing Ms. Wanda - Psychological counsellor of Rifka Annisa.
What do you think about the response of the Indonesian society when it comes to cases of rape and other sexual violence cases? Is it supportive or, instead blaming the victim?
Speaking generally, it’s better now. But you see, there are a lot of different types of violence, and Indonesian people respond to each one differently. For example, people are more supportive towards children rape victims, perpetrated by someone much older. But most people are still biased when it comes to dating violence, especially when it involves dating rape. People tend to assume it must be a mutual consensual sex since they are in a relationship. That’s why it does not make sense when the perpetrator of rape is their romantic partner. Another similar topic is marital rape which is rarely brought up in the public and even in the counseling settings. I think this has a lot to do with how much we understand the concept of consensual act.
Many people still consider one of main responsibilities as a wife is to have sex with her husband. Religious and cultural values might affect this, for example, people believe if a wife refuses any of the husband’ sexual advance, then she has sinned and wronged her husband. But I can only answer as a counselor who works closely with victims of violence. As for most people’ responses to that, perhaps you can ask friends in another division who work directly with the communities.
I think our social construct play a big role in shaping how we view women and men sexuality. For instance if husbands were to have affairs, it might be abnormal, but somehow acceptable because men are wired that way. And some people might blame the wife instead, “It’s because you are not pretty, that’s why your husband is looking elsewhere.” Some even advise the woman to “doll up” to fix this “problem”. Being cornered like this, the wife often emphasize the role of the other woman. There is a casual saying in Indonesian about “pelakor” (husband-snatcher); “Men are like cats, so it’s impossible for them to resist some salted fishes.” This isn’t right. If you are a good and loyal man, you should reject other women’ advances. People can seduce you, and you can choose to resist and refuse. This is expected on women, so why not on men?
If the victim is bearing the trauma from the violence that has been done and feels pressured from society, what is the best way to recover both physical and mental damage in the Indonesian context?
When women come here, we tailor services to their needs. We at Rifka Annisa have also built a tri-partite networking system, namely cooperation between hospitals, police, and WCC Rifka Annisa. This hope will make it easier for victims to access the services and facilities that he needs. For example, he needs medical assistance, Rifka Annisa can refer to the hospital, or if the police get complaints allegedly containing elements of domestic violence, they can contact Rifka Annisa for psychosocial assistance and recovery as well as hospital for medical treatment.
The work of this network has been adopted by many parties. Even in Yogyakarta has been formed FPKK consisting of various elements of society, including government agencies and various NGOs. (but at the time of the interview I did not explain much because I do not understand the history of FPKK, so I suggest to ask to my friends managers)
So if anyone is experiencing violence, our hope is that they just come to the crisis center like Rifka Annisa. But if they access other public services, such as health and safety, we hope they can also be detected through a networking system-though this will depend on the personnel. For example they go to the hospital, if the hospital personnel are already insightful against violence, then they can refer to a psychologist or a women's protection agency. Likewise law enforcement will not only focus on legal processes but also psychological assistance for the survivor.
Do you think that individual recovery is heavily impacted by the social pressures in Indonesia?
Support system is obviously important; it’s one of the factors because if individual resilience is quite good she could be fine but then again, support systems are quite important because humans can’t be in a high state all of the time, they have their downs, they can’t be happy all the time. So when we have problems I think it’s important to have someone close to us who understands us, to motivate us, just remind us what we are working for, I think it’s very important.
Well I think it might, well there is obviously some people who treat recovery process as something instant, so they are going to be like just move on you are not with your husband anymore what’s your problem. But it’s going to affect the victim a lot if they are in an environment that’s not supportive, they might have another problem with the community after. Like for example maybe she decides to get divorced from her husband but she still needs to reintegrate with society alone. Widows still have stigma, honestly I wasn’t aware of this I thought widows were okay but I’m not sure it is more personal view. I think it has to do with the peoples perspective that everyone must be married or have a partner, so when an adult women doesn’t haven’t anyone as a partner they might be a husband snatcher.
So I think that why widow gets a lot of negative stigma also I think people might label her because she has problem so her husband doesn’t like her. Also I think there is another factor, since men are expected to be the breadwinner that means the women will be dependent on her husband earning so it’s going to be hard. They have to prepare, how am I going to feed myself or my children if I get divorced from him and we usually remind our client they have to prepare for that. Also sometimes some clients think of it as an obstacle like they can’t do anything because she doesn’t have a job so she is stuck on that, so she doesn’t think oh I can prepare for this I can start looking for a job or start a small business, but this is normal from someone when they are distressed.
What do you think is the most problematic aspect of recovering from sexual harassment/rape in the Indonesian context?
I don’t know the most difficult thing for them, but since we use the feminist approach I think it basically stems on the concept of what being a woman means after this whole ordeal. I think many women victims ask themselves how I should live my life and who I am. Women often define themselves as someone who helps others or services others, like her husband. So maybe after they get divorced it might change her perspective of who she is, she is going to look for what being a woman means. I think it’s also the same for sexual assault because the myth of virginity is still quite strong around her, have you ever heard of menstrual cup or tampons, well there is this media online called Tirto ID. They release an article about menstrual products there are pads, or tampons or menstrual cups, and then when you see the comment sections, you are not going to believe it. some guys can’t wrap their mind around tampon or menstrual cup because it goes inside. they think “oh the woman is going to lose her virginity to a tampon” or “it’s going to make the woman reach orgasm”. They have this whole sexualized idea but it’s like it’s about menstruation it’s not even about their body.
So women who have been raped they are going to feel like they are not a whole woman anymore, and that is the reason why some rape victims might be susceptible to other forms of violence. Maybe they think that the men are abusive, but because they are not a whole woman, they deserve this kind of man so they will marry him anyway later they get into domestic violence, it is like a cycle. I think it is important to realise they are still woman, you are still you, there is nothing that has been taken away from you.
I think also it’s not any different with sexual harassment. In the past few years there have been some cases where it involves lecturer from university. Since the university or college doesn’t have regulations about that, all they can do is to fire the lecturer or transfer them to another place. There is a case between two college students, it was sexual harassment. There is a community service program (KKN) where for two or three months we are put in a community and we have to do a community service. The only punishment that was given to the male student was that he has to do another community service
What changes do you wish to see in Indonesia in relation to women’s rights issues?
I wish people are more aware of the inequality issues, it’s very hard to address, people keep saying women are equal now but in fact we are still so vulnerable to various gender based violence. I’m quite optimistic about it because I’ve seen changes in parenting children, I’ve seen more fathers also spend more time with their children, it’s not only a wife’s responsibility.
Author: Kathleen Sherrin, intern student from Charles Darwin University, Australia
Editor: Defirentia One
On 2-4 March 2017, Rifka Annisa Women Crisis Center held a workshop on school-based system for prevention and response to violence against women and children in Pesonna Hotel, Yogyakarta. The participants of this workshop are 15 school principals from several high schools in the district of Gunung Kidul, among others SMK Sanjaya Gunungkidul, SMK Pembangunan Karangmojo, SMK N Saptosari, SMK N 2 Purwosari, SMK N 3 Purwosari, SMK N 2 Gedangsari, SMK N 1 Wonosari, SMK N 1 Nglipar, SMK N 1 Ngawen, SMK N 1 Girisubo, SMK N 1 Gedangsari, SMK Muhammadiyah Semin, SMK Muhammadiyah Karangmojo and SMK Muhammadiyah 1 Wonosari. This three-day activity aims to understand the cause of violence against women and children, adolescent psychological dynamics and psychological character of women/children victims of violence in order to obatin a common understanding between schools related to prevention and response to violence in schools. This workshop was held based on cases evaluation handled by Rifka Annisa, where each year an average of 300 cases occured mostly in Yogyakarta. Type of cases handled by Rifka Annisa including violence against wives (domestic violence), rape, sexual harassment, violence in dating, violence within family and trafficking. In 2016, in the district of Gunung Kidul there were 29 cases, 10 of them were sexual violence. Based on available data, the ones who are more vulnerable experiencing sexual violence are shcool-age children. Rifka Annisa consider the importance of school-based system for prevention and response to violence. It also in accordance with the regulation of the Minister of Education and Culture of the Republic of Indonesia No. 82 In 2015, on the Prevention and Handling of Violence in Schools. Under this conditions, each of elements in schools needs to be strengthened. All components in schools such as students, teachers, staffs and principals have their respective roles in controlling school activities in order to avoid violence and sexual assault.
The school principal has an important role in policy making on prevention and response to violence. Therefore, it is expected that workshop on ”School-based system for prevention and response to violence against women and children“ could raise awareness, initiatives and efforts of each school to establish prevention of violence against women and children in school. In the last session of the workshop, the school principals highly appreciated the workshop held by Rifka Annisa. Dra. Siti Fadilah, M.Pd, the school principal of SMK Negeri Saptosari expressed her satisfaction with the material presented in the workshop. She was also amazed by the facilitators who are young, but can convey the material well. Another appreciation also addressed by H.Ruslan S.Pd,MM,Pd from SMK Pariwisata Purwosari, who expected that Rifka Annisa would sustain the coordination with school principals in this workshop.
In the last session of the workshop, the participants learned about counseling and mentoring, followed by discussion of follow-up plan and workshop evaluation. Some principals were questioned about the sustainability of prevention and response program to violence and sexual abuse in their schools. One of the principals, Drs. H. Rachmad Basuki, S.H, M.T from SMK N 2 Wonosari said he will soon set a date to conduct coordination with the teachers. It shows that this workshop was very effective in raising awareness of the prinicipals about the importance of prevention and response to violence and sexual abuse in schools. After attending this workshop, one of the principals, Sr. M. Eligia Kristiani, AK. S.Pd from SMK Sanjaya Gunungkidul advised the young generation to use social media productively in order to avoid negative impacts.
Translated by: Lutviah
Rifka Annisa WCC in cooperation with the Department of Education, Youth and Sports Gunungkidul to held a workshop entitled "School-Based System for the Prevention and Handling of Violence against Women and Children" from Thursday 25th until Saturday 27th August 2016. Participants consisted of 20 teachers from junior high (SMP) and vocational schools (SMK) in Gunungkidul, among others; SMK Negeri 1 Wonosari, SMK Negeri 1 Saptosari, SMK Negeri 1 Gedangsari, SMK Negeri I Ngawen, SMK Negeri 3 Wonosari, SMP Negeri 4 Wonosari, SMA Negeri 2 Wonosari and SMP Negeri 1 Semanu. Sessions that took place over the three days, aimed to understand the dynamics of adolescent psychology and character as well as understand the root causes of violence against women and children. Besides these activities the workshop also aimed to obtain a depiction of the experiences of each school regarding the prevention and response to cases of violence.
The workshop was held at the Platinum Hotel, Jl. Gowongan Kidul No. 57 Yogyakarta. Based on the results and evaluation of the mentoring activities with schools and also the research on sexual violence in Gunungkidul. Rifka Annisa takes seriously their school-based system for the prevention and response to violence and sexual assault. It is also in line with the Regulation of the Minister of Education and Culture of the Republic of Indonesia No. 82 In 2015, on the Prevention and Handling of Violence in Environmental Education Unit. So when discussing the education system, the strengthening of each element in the school is essential. The system is composed of the principal, teachers, and students. Among the teacher's role as educators, teachers, and counsellors, in accordance with Law no. 14 of 2005, there is great intensity for the teachers in their roles of interaction with the students. Thus, teachers have an important role in prevention and response to violence and must be trained accordingly to handle such cases.
At the beginning of the first day's session, Rifka Annisa invited Dra. Mutingatu Sholichah, M.Si, (lecturer of the Faculty of Psychology, University of Ahmad Dahlan Yogyakarta and Assistant Sexual violence counselling intervention of parents, teachers, and children) as a resource to share knowledge on adolescent psychology and the importance of the role of schools in the prevention and response to violence against women and children. The second day continued discussion on power relations and gender inequality. Indiah Wahyu Andari, one of the facilitators, explained, "The social construction in the community during this puts women in lower positions than men. Women attached to the roles of domestic and men to the role of the public. "Indiah also added that the root causes of violence against women and children is the existence of power relations, or relations are unbalanced (unequal) between each other and the construction of gender is biased. Among the things that affect the power relations is the level of education, social status, senior-junior, age, occupation, health status, economic status, majority-minority, and so forth.
In the evening session participants are invited to practice self-healing techniques for the treatment of victims of violence. Enthusiastic participants were very evident when they described their future dreams and what they hoped to do for their families and communities regarding such issues. The third day of talks were about counselling and mentoring, followed by a discussion of follow-up plans, then concluded with evaluation activities.
Translated by: Emma Hardy
Responding to the many alleged cases of sexual violence that occurred in the department of education, especially higher education in Yogyakarta, it takes great effort to deal with such cases.
Victims or people who know of the existence of sexual violence should not be silent with such knowledge. The willingness and courage to provide information would be very helpful in the process of handling cases of sexual violence that promotes the interests, protection and justice for the victims and the prevention of the recurrence of similar cases. Rifka Annisa offers space for complaints over cases of sexual violence occurring in education, especially higher education environment with the following conditions:
Complaints can be made via email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. ANNISA and hotline Rifka Annisa in 085100431298 and 085799057765, or come directly to the office of Rifka Annisa Jl. Jambon IV Komplek Jatimulyo Indah, Tegalrejo, Yogyakarta.
